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| Форумы Синтона > Nice to see you! Herzlich willkommen! Soyez les bienvenus! > To Complain or Blame: Is That the Question? |
| Автор: Татя 16.11.2010 - 16:10 |
| I'm all about positivity. ● Belong to the International Positive Psychology Association ●Member of the Positive Health Section ●Have a website called wwwThePositivePower.net ●lecture on Creating a Positive Work Environment ●Even when I'm not completely sure about something, I still claim to be Positive! So where does negativity fit in? Barbara Fredrickson has shown that we don'.t want to remove all negativity. A positive to negative ratio of 3:1 up to about 10:1 is associated with flourishing companies and thriving relationships. Above 10:1 there is a lack of attention to things that could be improved. Negativity calls our attention to significant issues so that we can deal with them in a constructive fashion. Examining a negative situation, as a challenge that we get the opportunity to solve or manage, rather than a problem that we are stuck with, is the key to resilience, coping, optimism and hope. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-blame-game/201011/complain-or-blame-is-the-question |